- What to do when you can’t deal with your partner’s porn addiction anymoreYour significant other knows you don’t like him using porn, Only Fans, thirst traps on social media, dating sites, escort pages – but he doesn’t seem to care. You’ve been told, “It’s normal,” “All men do it,” or that you’re controlling, insecure, and jealous. But you’ve had enough. You’ve hit rock bottom. You can’t deal with the lies and the disregard for your feelings anymore. What now?
- Things to do when you’re feeling intense and rawWhen you’ve just discovered your partner has been lying to you about their porn or sex addiction – this discovery is often called “d-day” –… Read more: Things to do when you’re feeling intense and raw
- My intimate betrayal trauma story, annotatedHave your partner’s porn habits caused you to believe you’ll never feel good or happy or whole or enough? I want to take your hand… Read more: My intimate betrayal trauma story, annotated
- What brought us here?What brought me here Two years ago, I walked in on my husband watching pornography, years after he’d explicitly agreed not to use porn any… Read more: What brought us here?
- Ground rules for Secular and CenteredDisclaimers I am not a licensed psychologist, therapist, or other healthcare professional. My expertise comes from my lived experiences. What I share on secularandcentered.com does… Read more: Ground rules for Secular and Centered